Valentine’s and anniversary gifts

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A bar of dark chocolate
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A luxury chocolate bar selection

9.5/10

Harris & James Dark Chocolate Bar Library (4 bars)

££ £15–£40

Better than a selection box and eaten by Boxing Day. A mix of flavours makes it feel like a tasting.

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Why we picked it: Four dark bars from 70% to 85%, from a British craft chocolate maker. A tasting session in a box.

  • 4 dark chocolate bars
  • 70% to 85% cocoa
  • British craft chocolate
  • Gift ready

What owners say: Smooth, not bitter and some of the best chocolate they’ve had. A great gift for dark chocolate fans.

Bath salts and candles
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A bath soak set

9.2/10

Nurture by Nature Pamper Gift Set

££ £15–£40

An excuse to take an hour for herself. Bath salts and oils get used up, so there’s no clutter.

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Why we picked it: Six full-size treats rather than tiny samples, all vegan: everything for a proper night off in the bath.

  • Bath salts and bath bomb bar
  • Soy wax candle
  • Hand cream, body scrub and soap
  • Vegan
  • Gift box

What owners say: A lovely, generous gift with a gorgeous citrus scent. Owners say it feels like a proper treat.

Bath salts and candles
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A bamboo bath tray

9.0/10

Banlilu Expandable Bamboo Bath Tray

£19.99 RRP

Holds a book, candle and a cup of tea across the bath. Turns an ordinary bath into an event.

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Why we picked it: Extends across almost any bath, with a stand for a book or tablet and a slot for a glass of wine. Bubble bath not included.

  • Bamboo
  • Extends to fit most baths
  • Book and tablet stand
  • Non-slip pads

What owners say: Practical, well designed and makes a relaxing bath even better.

Silk bedding
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A mulberry silk pillowcase

9.0/10

ZIMASILK 100% Mulberry Silk Pillowcase

££ £15–£40

A little luxury used every night. Silk feels cool and smooth, and many people find it kinder to hair than cotton.

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Why we picked it: Genuine 19 momme mulberry silk on both sides: cool to sleep on, kinder to hair, and just the sort of luxury she’d never buy herself.

  • 100% mulberry silk
  • 19 momme, grade 6A
  • Silk on both sides
  • Standard UK size (50 × 75cm)

What owners say: Beautiful quality, lovely and cool to sleep on, and noticeably kinder to hair than cotton.

Satin pyjamas on a hanger
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Satin pyjamas

8.9/10

SWOMOG Satin Short-Sleeve Pyjama Set

£ Under £15

Look far more expensive than they are and make lazy mornings feel luxurious.

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Why we picked it: Classic button-down satin pyjamas in lots of colours: the “treat yourself” look for less.

  • Silky satin
  • Button-down top
  • Elastic-waist trousers
  • Lots of colours

What owners say: The comfiest pyjamas ever, with a smooth feel and a lovely look.

Heads up: Sizing varies a little, so check the size chart on the listing.

Silk scrunchies
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A silk scrunchie set

8.9/10

SILKIE Mulberry Silk Skinny Scrunchies (set of 4)

££ £15–£40

Gentler on hair than elastic bobbles and look lovely. Comes in pretty sets that feel luxurious.

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Why we picked it: Silk is gentle on hair, so no kinks or snags. Four skinny scrunchies in a travel pouch that lives in her handbag.

  • 100% mulberry silk
  • Set of 4
  • Gentle on hair
  • Travel pouch

What owners say: Lovely quality, beautifully soft, and they hold without pulling.

Lit soy candles
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A large soy candle

8.8/10

96NORTH Vanilla Three-Wick Soy Candle

££ £15–£40

A bigger, longer-burning version of the candle she’d buy herself. Winter scents make the living room feel cosy.

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Why we picked it: Three wicks and a soft vanilla scent, in a smart gold-foil gift box, so there’s no wrapping required.

  • Three wicks
  • Soy wax
  • Vanilla, cream and bourbon
  • Gift boxed

What owners say: A strong, lovely vanilla scent and it looks far more expensive than it is.

Heads up: Let it burn until the whole top melts the first time, so it burns evenly.

Hot chocolate with marshmallows
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Luxury drinking chocolate

8.8/10

Hotel Chocolat Milky 50% Hot Chocolate (20 sachets)

££ £15–£40

Proper hot chocolate made from real chocolate flakes. Warms from the inside out.

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Why we picked it: Made with real chocolate flakes rather than powder, from the British chocolatier. Tastes like a treat from a proper café.

  • Real chocolate flakes
  • 50% cocoa milk
  • 20 single-serve sachets
  • Works in a Velvetiser

What owners say: A rich, not-too-sweet flavour that becomes their go-to drink.

Heads up: Whisk it well, or use a milk frother, for the smoothest cup.

Silver earrings
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Sterling silver stud earrings

8.7/10

RANKEEF Sterling Silver Earring Set

£ Under £15

Simple, classic and wearable every day. Sterling silver is kinder to sensitive ears than cheap metals.

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Why we picked it: A set of sterling silver studs and huggie hoops to mix and match, so there’s a pair for every outfit.

  • 925 sterling silver
  • Several pairs
  • Studs and huggie hoops
  • Hypoallergenic

What owners say: Good quality with a nice shine, a lovely variety of styles and great value.

Heads up: Want a big name? Pandora’s infinity studs are the popular choice, at just over £25.

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